Making others responsible for how you feel is the tendency to scapegoat.
Such a person refuses to ever accept culpability because he believes his feeling bad and his ill-constitution will be easier to bear if he can find someone to make responsible for it. S/he he must recriminate and distribute blame. Indeed s/he needs
others to be evil in
order to be able to consider himself good.
This is the
quintessential attitude of begrudgery, and resentment
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