Verbal exchanges are always driven by one thing.

Dialectics, or verbal exchanges are always shadowed. 

You speak, put forward an idea; it‟s always

shadowed by anxiety.

What is that anxiety?

The anxiety of attaining identity. 

But real identity will always be unattained because

there is no such thing.

This causes people anxiety and so they are always trying to

give identity fixity.

Take Socratic exchange or Marxist dialectics, all utopias whether advanced by

Marx or Plato are driven by the same thing. The drive is always self determination
or identity