Don't love me for my looks, or my wealth - love me for 'me', for what is beyond what I appear to be.

   What is loved in the other person is something beyond their image or physical attributes:

The person who aspires to be loved is not at all satisfied, as is well known, with being loved for his attributes. 

S/He demands to be loved as far as the complete subversion of the subject into a particularity can go…. to love is to love a being beyond what he or she appears to be.