Symbolic castration and doctrine of conditional joy to your children = ;be home by midnight'

 In the “Doctrine of Conditional Joy,”the Exception ('be home by midnight'etc)
Here we might argue is this “Doctrine of Conditional Joy”(or to put it in Lacanese) the logic of symbolic castration.

In the ultimate horizon of our experience, it is that - in order to enjoy, there must be  a limited scope of actual freedom, we have to endorse a transcendental limitation to our freedom?

Vetos abound ie  the only way to safeguard our reason to admit to an island of unreason at its very heart? The reliance on the pre-established Obstacle against which we can assert our freedom—is no longer viable; our freedom is asserted as autonomous, every limitation/constraint is thoroughly self-posited

 

 Can we love another person only if we are aware that we love God more? 

Such is the logic of symbolic castration 

However there is a value to interdictions, vetos don't transgress, indeed as some would argue (Bataille) human potential depends on such strictures.