How loving yourself, is like loving a ghost.

So beloved of those flaky 12 Step Programmes (thank you America, for your great cultural exports, of Twitter, Google, canned laughter, and 12 Step Programmes 'hey guys, why don't you try loving yourself a little.'

If we think of narcissism, and reductively turn to primary narcissism.
What self would indulge in a love that was not a love of the other

Can one love one's self, oneself? without loving one's double.

It has a similarity to loving a ghost.